When you cheat you’re cheating yourself out of the loyalty of another.
Because at the moment he might not be a thought in your mind, he’s staying waiting up for your call.
When you cheat you’re cheating yourself out of trust you each built to earn in each other’s lives.
Because his guard was up with you but he let you in apprehensively.
When you cheat you’re cheating yourself out of the love that could have been something.
Because while he says I love you, you’re choosing not to love him.
When you cheat you’re cheating someone out of the love they deserve in their life.
Because there is someone hoping and praying to meet someone like him who will treat him well.
When you cheat you’re cheating someone out of the truth.
Because he’s been nothing but honest.
When you cheat you’re cheating someone out of time.
Whether it’s your boyfriend who has devoted much of his life to you or it’s the other guy who actually thinks you are a decent girl.
Don’t waste someone’s time because you’re unsure of what you want to do on your own.
When you cheat you’re really cheating yourself because it will come back around and bite you in the ass.
When you cheat you’re ruining his perception of love and relationships.
The mess you created in their life someone else is going to have to clean up.
The trust someone else deserves that he put into you someone else won’t get as easy.
The person who could very well make him happy he’s pushing away because he’s scared to be deceived again.
You ruin him a little more every time you cheat.
You break his heart a little more every time you come online too late.
You make him feel like a fool for suspecting something but then you go and make him feel guilty for accusations. When he’s 100% right.
The truth is you don’t deserve him.
You don’t deserve his love, his loyalty or his trust.
If you aren’t happy with him then don’t be with him.
But you don’t get to pick and choose when you want a boyfriend.
That isn’t how it works. And maybe you got away with it for a bit.
Maybe you think you’re being coy pulling one over on him.
But he will find out. And when he does you’re going to feel more alone than ever.
Because the root of cheating isn’t him not being good enough.
The root of it is you not being good enough for yourself so you fill the void in the arms of another knowing very well you’re still empty.
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